Monthly Archives: February 2016

Open Letter to Mark Hagland

So…. At first I thought you were just the king of hyperbole.    Everyone that you didn’t like  was “HORRIFIC” or “HORRENDOUS.”  You spent inordinate amount of time talking about how other people had wronged you , but I do that … Continue reading

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Gaslighting or gas-lighting is a form of mental abuse in which information is twisted or spun, selectively omitted to favor the abuser, or false information is presented with the intent of making victims doubt their own memory, perception, and sanity … Continue reading

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Transracial Adoptive Parents’ Grade: F

Yes, I am still on it. Why?  #1 because I can – I am a grown ass women, after all. But #2 – y’all don’t seem to be hearing me. So let me see if I can break it down … Continue reading

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Albino Alligator

“They made the world so hard, everyday we got to keep on fighting”  – Bob Marley from “One Drop” This is not a battle of good and evil or wrong or right, this is a battle for dignity and respect … Continue reading

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Angry Adoptee – Uppity Negress

A couple days ago I got to drink a big cup of AP tears. Yesterday, I got to take a little trip to New Orleans to breath me some Negro air. And today my lungs are full and Imma ’bout … Continue reading

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A Transracial Adoptee’s Perspective on the Transracial Adoption Facebook Group and Fake Allies

“Bitch, I’m back.  By popular demand.”  (Messy Mya) Some of you who read my blog, know that I have been part of a group on adoption where ideally Adoptive parents, Adoptees, Birth parents/family and other members of the adoption constellation … Continue reading

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